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Why Can’t I Be Friends With My Therapist?

You and your therapist can exchange “friendly conversation” with each other, however, having a friendship-style relationship is not appropriate. Professional, ethical therapists are expected to keep strict client/therapist boundaries. Becoming or referring to each other as friends is considered a boundary violation.

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How Do I Know If Therapy Is Working?

Therapy often leads to profound changes, though these may not be immediately noticeable. While you may experience breakthroughs early on, most people notice subtle shifts in their thoughts and behaviors over time.

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My Therapist Uses A Scent That Bothers Me

Sometimes it’s awkward to talk about smells. So, it may feel awkward to bring up a scent your therapist is using in their office. Or, it may feel uncomfortable to mention that your therapist’s choice of cologne is bothering you. But, if it’s interfering with your ability to focus on your therapy, you have to be brave and bring it up.

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My Therapist Becomes Confrontational

Your therapist should be open to your questions and concerns about where discussions might be leading. These discussions allow you to better understand your therapy and feel empowered in your own mental health journey.

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Top Misconceptions About Therapy

Mental health therapy has become destigmatized and is being talked about very openly these days. However, misunderstandings exist about what therapy does or doesn’t do and what therapy is or isn’t. There are still many myths or misconceptions surrounding therapy that might make you hesitate. So let’s discuss those now!

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What Should I Talk About in Therapy?

Therapy is a place to work out your inner and outer conflicts. A place to find out what you really want and who you really are. While in therapy, it’s safe and it’s expected to question the norms and beliefs everyone else pressures you to accept. You can slowly peel back the layers of everything that is and isn’t you.

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How to Know When It’s Time to Go to Therapy

Most people seek therapy when they feel a need for help in changing some aspect of their life. Therapy can help encourage and support your desire to change. Perhaps you have goals you want to achieve but are finding it hard to attain them.  Or perhaps you’re working through unresolved issues you’ve never dealt with.

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What is Informed Consent?

Informed Consent” is an umbrella term for all the documents you sign when you go to your first therapy appointment. Sometimes, you’ll fill out paperwork with the therapist’s office assistant before your first visit. These documents are basically a formal way of saying you know that your participation in therapy is voluntary.

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In crisis? Here's who to call/text.

The following options are available 24/7 to provide free, confidential support in multiple languages. These resources are free, and everything you tell them is confidential, unless it’s essential to contact emergency services to keep you or a friend safe.

Suicide and Crisis Lifeline >> Click here to dial 988
Press 1 for Veterans, Press 2 for Spanish

Crisis Text Line >> Text HOME to 741741

In a life or death medical emergency >> Click here to dial 911

If someone is injured or their health is in danger, call 911. If appropriate, ask the operator to send someone trained in mental health, like Crisis Intervention Training (CIT) officers.

Safeguarding Therapy is NOT an emergency provider nor do we offer live support.